The Relational Is Political | Melissa A. Fabello, PhD

Posts by Melissa Fabello

Why do I find dating apps so f*cking exhausting?

Why do I find dating apps so f*cking exhausting?

Melissa FabelloMay 2, 2025

Why is femme4femme dating so f*cking hard?

Why is femme4femme dating so f*cking hard?

Melissa FabelloApril 21, 2025

What does it mean to decenter men—and how do I do it?

What does it mean to decenter men—and how do I do it?

Melissa FabelloApril 4, 2025

Astrologically, it's time to reflect on your love life. What Qs should you ask?

Astrologically, it's time to reflect on your love life. What Qs should you ask?

Melissa FabelloMarch 21, 2025

Love isn't 'blind,' but can we learn from this Netflix show?

Love isn't 'blind,' but can we learn from this Netflix show?

Melissa FabelloMarch 6, 2025

Why is it so hard to make friends in adulthood?

Why is it so hard to make friends in adulthood?

Melissa FabelloFebruary 24, 2025

I'm depressed, but still wanna show up—how?

I'm depressed, but still wanna show up—how?

Melissa FabelloFebruary 11, 2025

My anxious attachment hurts my partner. How do I stop spiraling?

My anxious attachment hurts my partner. How do I stop spiraling?

Melissa FabelloDecember 27, 2024

I believe in accountability. But how do I do it?

I believe in accountability. But how do I do it?

Melissa FabelloDecember 15, 2024

I'm bisexual and polyamorous, but only want to date women. Is that okay?

I'm bisexual and polyamorous, but only want to date women. Is that okay?

Melissa FabelloNovember 30, 2024

I'm interested in the 4B movement. But wait—is it TERF-y?

I'm interested in the 4B movement. But wait—is it TERF-y?

Melissa FabelloNovember 19, 2024

Want to do more to defeat Trump? Here's how.

Want to do more to defeat Trump? Here's how.

Melissa FabelloNovember 7, 2024